Momma says stupid is as stupid does – Forrest Gump

Momma says stupid is as stupid does – Forrest Gump

“So what do you do for a living?” I always cringe a bit when that question comes up among strangers,

I also dislike that question. I tell people I’m a scientist or that I do cancer research. Sometimes people are startled by that answer and say something like, “you don’t look like a scientist”. Which reminds me of a post about perceptions of what a scientist looks like.

Hey scientist, smile!

http://goo.gl/30nJLR

I try to strike a balance between explaining what I do and not talking over people’s head. It’s really an exercise to not use jargon. Most occupations have jargon and we often forget that jargon is almost a foreign language to everyone else. My wife and I had fried chicken for lunch while running errands yesterday. The girl at the cash register asked if the half order of dark was mine. I ordered 2 thighs and 2 drumsticks and it took a second to make the connection. Neither of us are stupid. Her co-worker chimed in and said, “you have to learn that not everyone knows that a half dark order is 2 thighs and 2 legs”.

One aspect of being a scientist that people do not realize is that great scientists are also creative. Without creativity, you’ll always be thinking inside the box. You will make incremental steps.

I don’t think I’m exceptionally smart. It does take a lot of work and effort to be a scientist as Brian said. I try to surround myself with people who are smarter. That keeps me humble and on my toes. I also remind myself that every person knows something that I don’t and I certainly don’t know everything. I enjoy learning and that’s why I’m a scientist.

Originally shared by Brian Koberlein

You Are Not Stupid

“So what do you do for a living?” I always cringe a bit when that question comes up among strangers, because when I reveal that I’m an astrophysics professor the response is almost always the same. “Um…wow…. You must be really smart!”

While it’s often intended as a compliment, it really isn’t. Smart didn’t allow me to become an astrophysicist. Hard work, dedication and the support of family and friends did. It’s also one of the most deeply divisive misconceptions about scientists that one can have: scientists are smarter than you. Part of this stems from the idolization of brilliant scientists. Albert Einstein was so smart that fictitious quotes are attributed to him. Media buzzes whenever Stephen Hawking says something about black holes. Any quote by Neil Tyson is a sure way to get likes on Facebook. We celebrate their genius and it makes us feel smart by association. But this stereotype of the “genius scientist” has a dark side.

For one there’s expectation that to do science you must be super smart. If you struggle with math, or have to study hard to pass chemistry, you must not have what it takes. The expectation to be smart when you don’t feel smart starts to foster a lack of self confidence in your abilities. This is particularly true if you’re a girl or minority where cultural biases presume that “your kind” aren’t smart, or shouldn’t be. Lots of talented children walk away from science because they don’t feel smart.

Then there’s the us vs. them mentality that arises from the misconception. Scientists (and fans of science) are smart. Smarter than you. You are stupid. But of course, you’re not stupid. You know you’re not stupid. The problem isn’t you, it’s the scientists. Scientists are arrogant. For example, when I criticized a particular science website for intentionally misleading readers, the most popular rebuttal was that I (as a scientist) was being elitist.

Where this attitude really raises its head is among supporters of fringe scientific ideas. Some of the strongest supporters of alternative scientific ideas are clearly quite intelligent. Presidential hopeful and evolution denier Ben Carson is a neurosurgeon. Pierre Robitaille made great advances in magnetic resonance imaging, but adamantly believes that the cosmic microwave background comes from Earth’s oceans. Physicist and Nobel laureate Ivar Giaever thinks global warming is a pseudoscience on the verge of becoming a “new religion.” None of these folks are stupid.

If there’s one thing most people know about themselves it’s that they’re not stupid. And they’re right. We live in a complex world and face challenges every day. If you’re stupid, you can quickly land in a heap of unpleasantness. Of course that also means that many people equate being wrong with being stupid. Stupid people make the wrong choices in life, while smart people make the right ones. So when you see someone promoting a pseudoscientific idea, you likely think they’re stupid. When you argue against their ideas by saying “you’re wrong,” what they’ll hear is “you’re stupid.” They’ll see it as a personal attack, and they’ll respond accordingly. Assuming someone is stupid isn’t a way to build a bridge of communication and understanding.

One of the things I love about science is how deeply ennobling it is. Humans working together openly and honestly can do amazing things. We have developed a deep understanding of the universe around us. We didn’t gain that understanding by being stupid, but we have been wrong many times along the way. Being wrong isn’t stupid.

Sometimes it’s the only way we can learn.

https://briankoberlein.com/2015/08/30/you-are-not-stupid/

0 Comments

  1. Stephanie Dreyfürst
    August 30, 2015

    Never be ashamed of being educated. You are obviously not an arrogant twit, but an empathic being who tries not to stand out too much. 🙂 Embrace your inner scientist! 

    Reply
  2. Chad Haney
    August 30, 2015

    I do embrace it. Thanks Stephanie Dreyfürst.

    Reply
  3. Brigitte W.
    August 30, 2015

    Smart vs. accomplished.

    Naturally, I prefer both.

    However, “wise and kind” is a better descriptions of you. 

    One of the most brilliant men that I ever knew quietly taught me chemistry in college, never revealing his part in the design of Fat Man and Little Boy. He wisely complimented my perfume instead, and I loved him for that, not his genius. Clever old codger.

    Reply
  4. Chad Haney
    August 30, 2015

    The movie Fat Man and Little Boy or the real project? That’s pretty cool, Brigitte W..

    Reply
  5. Brigitte W.
    August 30, 2015

    Real deal.

    Reply
  6. Renee Oertli
    September 1, 2015

    Right your a sciienist, Ya and my name is Kmart

    Reply
  7. Brigitte W.
    September 1, 2015

    Eh hmmm…

    Reply
  8. Chad Haney
    September 1, 2015

    Hey Kmart ‘you are’ not your. And I am a scientist. You can look up my publications. They are available to the public.

    Reply
  9. Sue Donivan
    September 2, 2015

    I love you scientist’s your cancer work,saved my sister! I LOVE YOU ALL SHE HAD COLON CANCER SHE’S BEEN IN REMISSION FOR 15 YEARS NOW.THANK YOU, THE TEARS ARE RUNNY DOWN MY CHEEKS FOR I STILL GET TO TELL HER I LOVE YOU JOYCE. THANK YOU FOR YOU SEE OUR MOTHER DIDN’T GET TO MAKE IT. CANCER KILLED HER IN 2001, (COLON CANCER TOO, BUT MY SISSY BEAT IT! THANKYOU.

    Reply
  10. Chad Haney
    September 2, 2015

    You are smart for sure, Aida Hazlan.

    Reply
  11. Brigitte W.
    September 2, 2015

    Aida Hazlan Most people doubt themselves sometimes. I find that kind people do it the most often. The truth is people are complicated. Chad is a prime example. I have never spoken to him about his degrees or job. However, I talk to him most days about a ton of other things, but I would call on him in an instant to talk about his expertise if I felt the need. My scientist friend is a fabulous scientist, but he is an even better friend.

    Like him, I’m sure you are much more than a lab coat 😉

    Reply
  12. Brigitte W.
    September 2, 2015

    :-))

    Reply
  13. Wow yeah
    September 3, 2015

    Really ¿nothing is stupid?

    Reply
  14. Carissa Braun
    September 12, 2015

    I missed this post twice (your reshare and the original). Thanks for pointing me this way, Chad Haney! 🙂

    Reply
  15. Chad Haney
    September 12, 2015

    You are welcome, Carissa Braun​. I hope you like it.

    Reply
  16. michele cull
    September 16, 2015

    I very much enjoyed reading this. Thanks for sharing.

    Reply
  17. Chad Haney
    September 16, 2015

    You are welcome michele cull 

    Reply
  18. donkey dork
    October 26, 2015

    Fuck you, bitch ass nigger

    Reply

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